1. Know thyself
2. Have a career (not just a job)
3. Know how to create a budget
4. Send thoughtful thank-you notes
5. Listen to a friend in need
6. Know my drink limit
7.Know when to ask for help
8. Know when to end an unhealthy relationship
9. Control my impulses
10. Learn to say “no” gracefully
11. Apologize when I’m wrong
12. Know how to open a bottle of wine
13. Have a set of tools (and know how to use them)
14. Know how to cook at least 3 meals well
15. Take off my bra without removing my shirt
16. Apply makeup while driving
17. Find the best deal
18. Negotiate a salary and/or pay raise
19. Dress for my body type
20. Change a flat (or know whom to call to come change it)
21. Spot a fake (handbag, diamond, potential friend …)
22. Be able to feign interest
23. Know how much to tip
24. Know when to walk away from any situation
25. Pay closer attention to what I eat
26. Always have a plan
27. Know that I can’t choose family, and when to tell them no
28. Read more books
29. Maintain close friendships
30. Live within my means